Comments on: Get out yer hankies https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/ Spike's Fight with Ovarian Cancer Thu, 06 Nov 2014 09:11:29 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.41 By: T'Hayla https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-900 Fri, 23 Feb 2007 03:01:50 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-900 Hey Big Guy
I apologize I checked out of the world for a few months and didn’t realize you had such a hard fall.
All My best energies.
I am pretty good listener if you ever need a good ear.
I dearly hope things are much better for you now.
Hugs and smiles
T’Hayla

]]> By: taylor https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-817 Thu, 05 Oct 2006 03:36:39 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-817 come over. we’ll whedon it up.

]]> By: Martha Hochman https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-814 Fri, 29 Sep 2006 15:03:42 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-814 Oh, Spike…I’m so sorry to hear about the break-up. I check in on your blog from time-to-time but I’m always a lttle afraid that something horrible will again have fallen into your life. I don’t know what it is ablout having cancer (ovca survivor 1 and a few months) but no matter how hard you try things sometimes just keep crumbling afterwards and it always seems like there is a link back to the cancer. But I continue to believe it does get better and our karma will eventually return to a better spot. Give yourself time to wallow and mourn (I know, AGAIN?) and then put yor chin up and move forward. You’re one of my role models and I know you can do it. Be kind to yourself. Wishing you all the very best from here on out. Martha

]]> By: Joy https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-809 Wed, 27 Sep 2006 07:39:13 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-809 Oh damn. damn damn damn damn damn damn damn damn

I am so sad to hear the news. So sorry that your relationship succumbed to the effects of the cancer. It’s hard to know what to say that isn’t just platitudes at a time like this so I’ll just say that, if there’s anything I can do, let me know. I’m here in Vancouver for a couple of weeks. If you need someone to go to appointments, etc. with you, I’m pretty good at that kind of stuff and I know that you have many other friends here that will also rise to that. It’s not the same, I know, but you won’t have to deal with those unpleasant moments all alone.

Damn

]]> By: Tricia https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-808 Tue, 26 Sep 2006 15:39:31 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-808 I just heard, Spike, and am so sorry. What a terribly hard thing. Hugs and love to you.

]]> By: TJ https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-807 Tue, 26 Sep 2006 14:52:25 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-807 Spike, I’m so sorry this happened to you. My heart is bleeding for you both. If there’s anything at all that I can do, please let me know. I know how gut wrenching breakups can be. And like many, I suppose, the relationship between you and Elaine appeared to be stuck together with some seriously heavy duty construction adhesive. The harder it’s stuck, the worse it hurts to rip it apart. You will make it through this but it’s gonna take a lot of time. Be gentle with yourself. OK? Many, many people love and care about you.

]]> By: Wistaria https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-804 Mon, 25 Sep 2006 17:37:10 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-804 Oh, Spike… I’m really sorry to hear that. I don’t even know what to say. Breakups are nasty, horrible beasts that are so painful to go through. I hope that you’re hanging in there and that you make it through the next days/weeks as easily as possible.

Wistaria

]]> By: Nancy coffeegal https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-803 Mon, 25 Sep 2006 17:17:41 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-803 I am sorry to hear about the break up. I feel for you. I am a cancer survivor stage 3 cervical a year and ahalf and hopefully counting. My husband and I just have not been the same since this whole, awful, unexpected, uninvited visitor called cancer. I have been just miserable, mentally and physically and that has effected our relationship. I do know sometimes things happen in life the way they are supposed to and in time, give yourself time, you will smile again, and feel the sunshine and know it will be ok again. Best, Nancy

]]> By: Rose https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-802 Mon, 25 Sep 2006 01:00:13 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-802 De-lurking to say that I’m very sorry you are going through this. Wishing you happier times in the future, despite how bleak they look now. Hugs to you.

]]> By: Jeannette https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-801 Sat, 23 Sep 2006 17:59:25 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-801 I wish I could say something more than I’m sorry. I hope that you both have a chance for your hearts to heal and maybe, just maybe, you can find your way back to one another.

Spike, I have no idea why one woman has to experience so much in such a short period of time. I think of you often and hope that the cosmos align in your favor and that only good things come your way.

Peace…and hugs.

]]> By: jennysue https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-800 Sat, 23 Sep 2006 14:35:24 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-800 breakups suck, and there is nothing to say to make it easier. Some cigarettes, and some beer always did me just fine – but it’s been a while since I had a breakup (atleast 8 years) – and maybe now my destructive response would be a bit healthier. We are here for you! BIG HUG

]]> By: Vicki https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-799 Sat, 23 Sep 2006 13:00:39 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-799 I’m sorry Spike – there re no words that can comfort. I will say that I’ve been through a divorce… 27 years ago, met my current husband that same year…. who knew… change hurts, but you really don’t know what’s around that next corner.

]]> By: jawnbc https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-798 Fri, 22 Sep 2006 16:03:40 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-798 I’m so sorry.

]]> By: Silva https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-797 Fri, 22 Sep 2006 15:56:45 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-797 Damn. I’m so sorry, Spike. Words are inadequate. I’m available, if there’s anything I can do.

]]> By: tara https://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/comment-page-1/#comment-796 Fri, 22 Sep 2006 06:54:59 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-796 fuck. whoa.

i hope that it’s going to be ok.

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