Comments on: Get out yer hankies http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/ Spike's Fight with Ovarian Cancer Sat, 11 Oct 2008 12:36:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: arli http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-794 arli Thu, 21 Sep 2006 22:32:04 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-794 I'm so sarry for you both...words can't adequately describe how sorry I am. I want you to know that I love and value the friendships of both of you and that isn't going to change!! I’m so sarry for you both…words can’t adequately describe how sorry I am.

I want you to know that I love and value the friendships of both of you and that isn’t going to change!!

]]> By: Jeannie http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-795 Jeannie Fri, 22 Sep 2006 00:59:46 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-795 I haven't been reading your site long, but wanted to de-lurk and add my condolences. I'm so sorry to hear about this, my best wishes to you both. I haven’t been reading your site long, but wanted to de-lurk and add my condolences. I’m so sorry to hear about this, my best wishes to you both.

]]> By: tara http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-796 tara Fri, 22 Sep 2006 06:54:59 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-796 fuck. whoa. i hope that it's going to be ok. fuck. whoa.

i hope that it’s going to be ok.

]]> By: Silva http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-797 Silva Fri, 22 Sep 2006 15:56:45 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-797 Damn. I'm so sorry, Spike. Words are inadequate. I'm available, if there's anything I can do. Damn. I’m so sorry, Spike. Words are inadequate. I’m available, if there’s anything I can do.

]]> By: jawnbc http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-798 jawnbc Fri, 22 Sep 2006 16:03:40 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-798 I'm so sorry. I’m so sorry.

]]> By: Vicki http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-799 Vicki Sat, 23 Sep 2006 13:00:39 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-799 I'm sorry Spike - there re no words that can comfort. I will say that I've been through a divorce... 27 years ago, met my current husband that same year.... who knew... change hurts, but you really don't know what's around that next corner. I’m sorry Spike - there re no words that can comfort. I will say that I’ve been through a divorce… 27 years ago, met my current husband that same year…. who knew… change hurts, but you really don’t know what’s around that next corner.

]]> By: jennysue http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-800 jennysue Sat, 23 Sep 2006 14:35:24 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-800 breakups suck, and there is nothing to say to make it easier. Some cigarettes, and some beer always did me just fine - but it's been a while since I had a breakup (atleast 8 years) - and maybe now my destructive response would be a bit healthier. We are here for you! BIG HUG breakups suck, and there is nothing to say to make it easier. Some cigarettes, and some beer always did me just fine - but it’s been a while since I had a breakup (atleast 8 years) - and maybe now my destructive response would be a bit healthier. We are here for you! BIG HUG

]]> By: Jeannette http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-801 Jeannette Sat, 23 Sep 2006 17:59:25 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-801 I wish I could say something more than I'm sorry. I hope that you both have a chance for your hearts to heal and maybe, just maybe, you can find your way back to one another. Spike, I have no idea why one woman has to experience so much in such a short period of time. I think of you often and hope that the cosmos align in your favor and that only good things come your way. Peace...and hugs. I wish I could say something more than I’m sorry. I hope that you both have a chance for your hearts to heal and maybe, just maybe, you can find your way back to one another.

Spike, I have no idea why one woman has to experience so much in such a short period of time. I think of you often and hope that the cosmos align in your favor and that only good things come your way.

Peace…and hugs.

]]> By: Rose http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-802 Rose Mon, 25 Sep 2006 01:00:13 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-802 De-lurking to say that I'm very sorry you are going through this. Wishing you happier times in the future, despite how bleak they look now. Hugs to you. De-lurking to say that I’m very sorry you are going through this. Wishing you happier times in the future, despite how bleak they look now. Hugs to you.

]]> By: Nancy coffeegal http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-803 Nancy coffeegal Mon, 25 Sep 2006 17:17:41 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-803 I am sorry to hear about the break up. I feel for you. I am a cancer survivor stage 3 cervical a year and ahalf and hopefully counting. My husband and I just have not been the same since this whole, awful, unexpected, uninvited visitor called cancer. I have been just miserable, mentally and physically and that has effected our relationship. I do know sometimes things happen in life the way they are supposed to and in time, give yourself time, you will smile again, and feel the sunshine and know it will be ok again. Best, Nancy I am sorry to hear about the break up. I feel for you. I am a cancer survivor stage 3 cervical a year and ahalf and hopefully counting. My husband and I just have not been the same since this whole, awful, unexpected, uninvited visitor called cancer. I have been just miserable, mentally and physically and that has effected our relationship. I do know sometimes things happen in life the way they are supposed to and in time, give yourself time, you will smile again, and feel the sunshine and know it will be ok again. Best, Nancy

]]> By: Wistaria http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-804 Wistaria Mon, 25 Sep 2006 17:37:10 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-804 Oh, Spike... I'm really sorry to hear that. I don't even know what to say. Breakups are nasty, horrible beasts that are so painful to go through. I hope that you're hanging in there and that you make it through the next days/weeks as easily as possible. Wistaria Oh, Spike… I’m really sorry to hear that. I don’t even know what to say. Breakups are nasty, horrible beasts that are so painful to go through. I hope that you’re hanging in there and that you make it through the next days/weeks as easily as possible.

Wistaria

]]> By: TJ http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-807 TJ Tue, 26 Sep 2006 14:52:25 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-807 Spike, I'm so sorry this happened to you. My heart is bleeding for you both. If there's anything at all that I can do, please let me know. I know how gut wrenching breakups can be. And like many, I suppose, the relationship between you and Elaine appeared to be stuck together with some seriously heavy duty construction adhesive. The harder it's stuck, the worse it hurts to rip it apart. You will make it through this but it's gonna take a lot of time. Be gentle with yourself. OK? Many, many people love and care about you. Spike, I’m so sorry this happened to you. My heart is bleeding for you both. If there’s anything at all that I can do, please let me know. I know how gut wrenching breakups can be. And like many, I suppose, the relationship between you and Elaine appeared to be stuck together with some seriously heavy duty construction adhesive. The harder it’s stuck, the worse it hurts to rip it apart. You will make it through this but it’s gonna take a lot of time. Be gentle with yourself. OK? Many, many people love and care about you.

]]> By: Tricia http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-808 Tricia Tue, 26 Sep 2006 15:39:31 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-808 I just heard, Spike, and am so sorry. What a terribly hard thing. Hugs and love to you. I just heard, Spike, and am so sorry. What a terribly hard thing. Hugs and love to you.

]]> By: Joy http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-809 Joy Wed, 27 Sep 2006 07:39:13 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-809 Oh damn. damn damn damn damn damn damn damn damn I am so sad to hear the news. So sorry that your relationship succumbed to the effects of the cancer. It's hard to know what to say that isn't just platitudes at a time like this so I'll just say that, if there's anything I can do, let me know. I'm here in Vancouver for a couple of weeks. If you need someone to go to appointments, etc. with you, I'm pretty good at that kind of stuff and I know that you have many other friends here that will also rise to that. It's not the same, I know, but you won't have to deal with those unpleasant moments all alone. Damn Oh damn. damn damn damn damn damn damn damn damn

I am so sad to hear the news. So sorry that your relationship succumbed to the effects of the cancer. It’s hard to know what to say that isn’t just platitudes at a time like this so I’ll just say that, if there’s anything I can do, let me know. I’m here in Vancouver for a couple of weeks. If you need someone to go to appointments, etc. with you, I’m pretty good at that kind of stuff and I know that you have many other friends here that will also rise to that. It’s not the same, I know, but you won’t have to deal with those unpleasant moments all alone.

Damn

]]> By: Martha Hochman http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-814 Martha Hochman Fri, 29 Sep 2006 15:03:42 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-814 Oh, Spike...I'm so sorry to hear about the break-up. I check in on your blog from time-to-time but I'm always a lttle afraid that something horrible will again have fallen into your life. I don't know what it is ablout having cancer (ovca survivor 1 and a few months) but no matter how hard you try things sometimes just keep crumbling afterwards and it always seems like there is a link back to the cancer. But I continue to believe it does get better and our karma will eventually return to a better spot. Give yourself time to wallow and mourn (I know, AGAIN?) and then put yor chin up and move forward. You're one of my role models and I know you can do it. Be kind to yourself. Wishing you all the very best from here on out. Martha Oh, Spike…I’m so sorry to hear about the break-up. I check in on your blog from time-to-time but I’m always a lttle afraid that something horrible will again have fallen into your life. I don’t know what it is ablout having cancer (ovca survivor 1 and a few months) but no matter how hard you try things sometimes just keep crumbling afterwards and it always seems like there is a link back to the cancer. But I continue to believe it does get better and our karma will eventually return to a better spot. Give yourself time to wallow and mourn (I know, AGAIN?) and then put yor chin up and move forward. You’re one of my role models and I know you can do it. Be kind to yourself. Wishing you all the very best from here on out. Martha

]]> By: taylor http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-817 taylor Thu, 05 Oct 2006 03:36:39 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-817 come over. we'll whedon it up. come over. we’ll whedon it up.

]]> By: T'Hayla http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-900 T'Hayla Fri, 23 Feb 2007 03:01:50 +0000 http://www.spikeharris.com/somethingevil/2006/09/get-out-yer-hankies/#comment-900 Hey Big Guy I apologize I checked out of the world for a few months and didn't realize you had such a hard fall. All My best energies. I am pretty good listener if you ever need a good ear. I dearly hope things are much better for you now. Hugs and smiles T'Hayla Hey Big Guy
I apologize I checked out of the world for a few months and didn’t realize you had such a hard fall.
All My best energies.
I am pretty good listener if you ever need a good ear.
I dearly hope things are much better for you now.
Hugs and smiles
T’Hayla

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